Entri kali ini memang emosi sikit..! Dedicated untuk my 'lovely' juniors.
Actually, dah lama nak mengomen tentang benda ni.. its about RESPECT. FYI, kat IIUM ni sistem nyer dah cantik.. yang lelaki dipanggil 'brother' dan yang perempuan di panggil 'sister'.. in Malay, 'abang' or 'kakak'.
Ini cerita dalam 'fakulti'.
So, usually yang lelaki akan panggil 'akak' utk senior2 perempuan (tak kisah la senior berapa tahun pun). Yang perempuan pula, JARANG nak panggil 'abang' or 'brother' untuk senior2 lelaki (tak kisah la senior2 berapa tahun pun). Ada senior yang ok (can tolerate), but ada yang feel very annoying (aku la tu!). Bukannya apa.. please la show you all punya RESPECT sikit.. Orang berbudi, kita berbahasa kan.. Kalo segan nak panggil 'abang', panggil la brother.. instead of sebut nama jer.. Hengat kita ni omputeh keerr?? huh!!
Baru jap tadi berselisih dengan junior2 yangterchenta, memang tak menunjukkan RESPECT langsung!.. Main panggil2 nama jer.. Tahu lah kamu tu dah year X,Y,Z.. tapi spare la some RESPECT to your seniors.. Susah sangat ke nak RESPECT org?? kalau sound depan2 nanti merajuk la pulak.. cakap itulah, inilah.. macam-macam..
Benda ni is basic common sense as orang Melayu.. Budaya hormat-menghormati... Not in the fakulti je, but you will apply the same thing when you go for work...
Ok lah.. itu sahaja. Tq sebab baca yer.
p/s: What you give, you get back. Faham-faham jer lah.
Actually, dah lama nak mengomen tentang benda ni.. its about RESPECT. FYI, kat IIUM ni sistem nyer dah cantik.. yang lelaki dipanggil 'brother' dan yang perempuan di panggil 'sister'.. in Malay, 'abang' or 'kakak'.
Ini cerita dalam 'fakulti'.
So, usually yang lelaki akan panggil 'akak' utk senior2 perempuan (tak kisah la senior berapa tahun pun). Yang perempuan pula, JARANG nak panggil 'abang' or 'brother' untuk senior2 lelaki (tak kisah la senior2 berapa tahun pun). Ada senior yang ok (can tolerate), but ada yang feel very annoying (aku la tu!). Bukannya apa.. please la show you all punya RESPECT sikit.. Orang berbudi, kita berbahasa kan.. Kalo segan nak panggil 'abang', panggil la brother.. instead of sebut nama jer.. Hengat kita ni omputeh keerr?? huh!!
Baru jap tadi berselisih dengan junior2 yang
Benda ni is basic common sense as orang Melayu.. Budaya hormat-menghormati... Not in the fakulti je, but you will apply the same thing when you go for work...
Ok lah.. itu sahaja. Tq sebab baca yer.
p/s: What you give, you get back. Faham-faham jer lah.
8 comments:
wow! didn't know you're offended. if you're talking about me, then, my sincere apology to you. since i greeted you this evening
just to clarify, me calling people by their name doesn't mean that i don't respect them. to call you abang and the rest of seniors are bit awkward for me. and to call them bro, i felt distance.
but if you think that is actually shows no respect by calling you with your names, then i shall address you with bro after this.
ouh this is not me being offended. this is respecting your opinions regarding this matter :) just to clarify some things here.
btw, good luck with your final exams.
to izzahismail:
aha.. actly, its not bout u and xxx la.. I know u since matrix, so no prob. hehe.. =) sorry if u being offended..
did u call my name?? tak perasan pun =p
OH EMM GEEE! hehe, seriously seriously i thought you're offended because i remember greet you cheerfully this evening. i was thinking it will sound weird if i call you 'bro' considering that me and you are close, at least i think we're close. hehe, XD
but i still think that if you dont know that particular person, you should address them with bro/sis. to be on safe side, mana tahu kot2 lecturer ke. huhu. unless lah you're close to that person.
so yeah, common sense. :)
ooo ...nak saye pgil senpai ke oppa? =p..hehehe...
OMK!!! Madan PMS!!! Hahaha... symptom org nk grad =P Jaga2...
to izzah: yup.. its common sense ryte.. =)
to 9: aha... up to u.. =p
to 3p4h: OMK? Emotional disoriented.. 'Ubat dah abiss'.. =p
Oh Mak Kau! Haha...
p/s: MIMS kan ada =))
oppa la kalau gitu...hahaha =p
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